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I often contemplated what my life would be like as a parent. My questions included:
You can hold your ground and tell yourself that you’ll still make time for nights out with your mates, for quick drinks after work or the occasional weekend outing. What you may not anticipate are the changes to your own mindset post-fatherhood.
Guilt-trip. It’s bad enough that I barely see my child during the working week, but to also miss their bedtime for a familiar night out with the gang seizes to be the carefree get-together I once enjoyed. For my night would always end on a somber note if I were to find my little rascal fast asleep on my return to home.
In short, I may not have lost friends since becoming a dad, but I have lost touch with many. Interactions are less frequent now, as are outings. Especially with those where our paths are no longer aligned. It feels similar to leaving high school, and you begin to evolve as a person — the same happens in this case — it's a natural progression, but you aren't exactly 'missing out.'
If my partner and child are not the factors keeping me from spending time with my mates, then symptoms of early fatherhood exhaustion are to blame. On the plus side, I now enjoy the company of other friends with kids!
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